by Tonya Sheridan
If you want things to be different in your life, you must set goals. This enables you to make better and quicker decisions. You are able to decide whether you really want particular things in your life. No matter how tempting they may be, if they alter where you want to go then they are not for you. This saves you time, money, energy and makes life much simpler.
When most people think of setting goals, they think of New Year’s Eve and associate them with disappointment because they failed to follow through on the goals they set. The reason they failed is they did not follow through due to lack of support or it was never their goal to begin with, it was based on what they thought others wanted or they were not in touch with their true passion in life. Others see goal setting as a tedious chore or something that takes away from their personal freedom. In reality, setting goals will actually give you more personal freedom. The ultimate freedom is being your authentic self, living your life with passion and having financial freedom.
Change your perception of goal setting and your entire life will change. Begin associating goal setting with personal freedom, happiness, physical health, healthy relationships and longevity. Write down the areas of your life that feel out of control – work, finances, weight, health, home, relationships, family, friends and hobbies. Writing them down and getting them all out of your head and onto a piece of paper is the first step toward gaining control over your own life. Next write down who can help your reach your goals in each of the identified areas. We all need a support system, whether it’s a trusted friend, family member, a Life Coach, Personal Trainer or Financial Planner. Without them we will just be floundering about with no clear direction. Being honest with yourself is crucial to your success. We can’t be experts on everything and we are all self-motivated in some areas but not others. For example, if you have tried working out on your own or taken classes but never stuck to an exercise program in the past, then hire a Personal Trainer. Success is knowing your weaknesses as well as your strengths. The longterm savings in health costs and the quality of your life well outweigh the cost. If you need support in identifying your life’s passion, getting your life in balance or want someone to guide you and hold you accountable in reaching your goals, then hire a Life Coach. If you feel that you cannot afford to hire a professional, then take a hard, honest look at where you spend your money. If you spend $100 or more every weekend on alcohol and dining out, wouldn’t that money be better spent on building the life of your dreams?
Visualize yourself living the life of your dreams…see it…feel it. What does it look like? What does it feel like? Are you going to do what is necessary to make it happen?
Tonya Sheridan
Life Coach
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